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Old 23rd June 2009, 05:18 AM
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I was spanked as a child, and I can most assuredly say that I am a much better person for that discipline. I think the largest problem with the spanking debate is how the issue is framed. Spanking should be about consequences for actions. Too often, spanking takes place because the parents "had it" or "couldn't take any more" and then disciplined the children in anger instead of a calm delivery of predetermined consequences for actions. I believe that any punishment meted out in anger is abuse.
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spanking children with cause should be ok - spanking children for every little thing is just overboard!
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Personally I don't think spanking is necessary to properly punish a child. If you are capable in your reasoning and logic, the child should understand without needing to be spanked.

All spanking serves to do is make the child afraid of doing whatever it is that they did to deserve the spanking. If you explain to them why they were wrong in their actions, then they will actually understand why they shouldn't do something.
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Personally I don't think spanking is necessary to properly punish a child. If you are capable in your reasoning and logic, the child should understand without needing to be spanked.

All spanking serves to do is make the child afraid of doing whatever it is that they did to deserve the spanking. If you explain to them why they were wrong in their actions, then they will actually understand why they shouldn't do something.
It would be so great if all children behaved like that. Just sat and listened and learned from their mistakes, but they don't.

A lot of kids just tend to ignore you, or just tell you what you want to hear. Then they go off and just do it all over again cause they know there is no consequences. As long as you can control it and don't actually beat the child in a bad way, then I think its ok.
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Child buttock-battering for the purpose of gaining compliance is nothing more than an inherited bad habit.

Its a good idea for people to take a look at what they are doing, and learn how to DISCIPLINE instead of hit.

I think the reason why television shows like "Supernanny" and "Dr. Phil" are so popular is because that is precisely what many (not all) people are trying to do.

There are several reasons why child buttock-battering isn't a good idea. Here are some good, quick reads recommended by professionals:

Plain Talk About Spanking
by Jordan Riak,



The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children
by Tom Johnson,

NO VITAL ORGANS THERE, So They Say
by Lesli Taylor M.D. and Adah Maurer Ph.D.

Most compelling of all reasons to abandon this worst of all bad habits is the fact that buttock-battering can be unintentional sexual abuse for some children. There is an abundance of educational resources, testimony, documentation, etc available on the subject that can easily be found by doing a little research on "spanking".

Just a handful of those helping to raise awareness of why child buttock-battering isn't a good idea:

American Academy of Pediatrics,
American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry,
Center For Effective Discipline,
PsycHealth Ltd Behavioral Health Professionals,
Churches' Network For Non-Violence,
Nobel Peace Prize recipient Archbishop Desmond Tutu,
Parenting in Jesus' Footsteps,
The LDS Church (http://education.byu.edu/youcandothis/spanking.html click "quotes on spanking")
Global Initiative To End All Corporal Punishment of Children,
United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child.

In 26 countries, child buttock-battering is prohibited by law (with more in process). In fact, the US was the only UN member that did not ratify the Convention on the Rights of the Child.
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If you need physical force to keep your child in line I think there is some other problems at hand.
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I was spanked quite a lot as a child, and deserved it. As long as it is not abuse or is excess there is nothing wrong.
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some times appropriate but at a certain age it must stop........about 36 is good.
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Spank for repeat offences, but not hurt anything but their frrlings.
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